Giving the Perfect Sissy Blow Job | A Guide for Newbies
Often considered the pinnacle of girliness for sissies who like men, giving a blow job takes practice. Here's our quick guide on how to up your skills.
SISSY TRAINING
Emma LaVerne
9/21/20245 min read
If you are being trained or planning to become a sissy who is there to pleasure men, you are going to need to learn a few important skills. Top of the list is how to give an amazing blow job.
While it may seem daunting at first, you have probably been fantasising about this for some time. You want to be on your knees, dressed in your sexiest lingerie, staring up at your man. Your eyes drop hungrily to the bulge in his pants. He’s so excited right now. You unzip his flies and reach gently in, releasing his large, hot cock. How beautiful it looks and how you want to wrap your painted lips around it.
Learning to give a great blow job, however, is about how much practice you put in. It’s important to get it right the first time. After all, first impressions DO certainly count.
Today, we’re going to talk about all the things you need to know and do to give the perfect blow job to your man. Whether you’re at home in the bedroom, in the car or at the local bar or restaurant you need to be ready to get on your knees, part those ruby red lips and get to work.
The BJ Mindset
The most important thing in the beginning is what kind of mindset you have. You may well be very nervous at the thought of being so vulnerable and accepting a man's hot, throbbing cock into your mouth.
The truth is that those who enjoy giving blow jobs tend to be the ones who are good at them. You need to develop a cock sucking mindset. That takes practice and experience. The more you give men blow jobs, the more comfortable and aroused you will become over time. Cultivating the right mindset can be achieved by practising with dildoes and realistic cocks, watching sissy hypnosis videos and listening to audio and learning the right techniques for satisfying your man.
For some sissies, this comes fairly quickly. For others, it can take time. Don’t be in a hurry. Build up your passion for cock sucking over weeks or months so that when you finally do kneel before you man, you’re more than ready.
Practice Makes Perfect
Invest in a realistic cock, preferably one with a suction cup that you can fix to a wall or cupboard door. Make sure it is large enough to stretch your mouth and flexible so you can bob up and down like a true sissy slut. These are fairly inexpensive and can be bought online. Perhaps get several different sizes so you can practice satisfying different kinds of cock.
To become a good sissy cock sucker, you really need to practice every day. It’s important to watch videos of others giving blow jobs and try out their techniques. It’s not always as easy as you think.
Techniques like deep-throating can take a lot of time to master properly. For the moment, settle into regular sucking and licking, using not just your mouth but your hands to bring your man to full release.
Wearing the Right Clothes
Of course, it’s important to be appropriately dressed when you are giving a blow job. If you have a practice session, make sure you are attired in panties and bra, stockings and suspenders, and high heels. You should always have lipstick and wear your wig. The more you look the part of a sissy slut, the more you will feel it in your heart when you wrap your lips around that beautiful cock.
Get into the habit of doing a sexy dance or walk before you kneel down before the cock and begin sucking. Look up at your imaginary man and smile, stroke that cock with your hand before parting your lips and beginning.
Location, Location, Location
It’s important to also imagine the location and circumstances where you are giving a blow job. You might be lying on the bed giving your man a morning surprise. Maybe you’re on your knees in the hallway. A favourite is giving a blow job in the car while he’s driving along, and you need something to occupy your mind. Other men love something more risqué. What if he asks you to go under the table at a restaurant and give him a blow job? Wouldn’t that be sexy and wonderful and thrilling?
When you practice, therefore, it’s important to pretend you are in different surroundings. You should dress appropriately for each occasion.
Blowjob Techniques
There are lots of different blow job techniques to try out. The head and the frenulum are the most sensitive parts of the penis so you should be gentle with these. Kissing and licking are perfect for this area. When you insert his cock into your mouth, cover your teeth with your lips to provide a cushion, especially if you are going to start bobbing back and forth. The penis shaft can be treated a little more roughly. You can grip it a little harder and work up and down.
Use all your assets. The hands, tongue and lips should work together. Lick up and down the shaft, suck the balls, kiss the bulbous head while stroking with your hand. Take your time and show your man you are enjoying yourself. Moan with pleasure, tell him how big and hard his cock is.
Staring Up at Your Man
It’s important to listen to your man’s responses. You’ll be able to tell if he’s enjoying it or not. If he provides instruction, make sure that you follow it. Always stare up at your man at regular intervals and make eye contact so he knows you’re having fun.
Deep Throating
One technique every sissy seems to want to try is deep-throating. This can be quite challenging to a novice. It’s where the full length of the man’s cock is pushed down the sissy’s throat. It can cause a gagging reflex which is why you need to be prepared and have practiced beforehand so you can train your body to cope. A man will often pull the back of the girl's head towards the cock and penetrate her mouth and throat deeper.
Shower or Swallow
Some man can take a long time to come, others reach their peak fairly quickly. Whichever is the case you need to be ready for that moment of release. Again, some men can give a short, sharp spurt of cum, others can go on forever. Whether you take it down the throat and swallow, hold it on your tongue or have his seed splashed all over your breasts and face will depend on the man.
Many girls like that shower of semen over their face which they then lick off. It can show the man how much you enjoy his cum. Rubbing it over your breasts can also be highly erotic. Cleaning your man off with your tongue as his excitement subsides is another nice touch.
Finish With a Thank You
Never be in a hurry to get up and get on with something else. Always stay kneeling and smile up at your man and thank him for having fucked your mouth.
With practice and dedication, you should become a wonderful cock sucking sissy. The more you practice, the better you will become. Soon you’ll find yourself giving men blow jobs in a whole range of different places, from cars and restrooms to the local cinema.