How to SIssify Your Man Part One

Through coercion, hypnosis and a few other tricks, you can easily change the way your guy looks and feels about himself. Soon he’ll love the feel of lingerie next to his smooth skin, and he’ll be giggling like the girl you’ve always wanted, shimmying on the dance floor and fluttering his lashes at all the boys.

Whether you want him to be a prissy sissy, a perfect maid or a sensational slut, this is the guide for you.

Sissification 101

If you’re fed up with dealing with a beta male who isn’t making the grade (and never will), all is not lost. In this comprehensive post we’ll look at the steps you need to take to turn your guy into a girl and beyond. That includes:

• Laying the groundwork

• Choosing the look

• How to trick your guy into being a girl more and more

• The process of full sissification and the help you need

• Laying the groundwork for your man’s journey

• Taking things to the next stage

There are two types of guys you can sissify, those who want it and those who don’t. This manual shows you how to sissify a guy who isn’t expecting it, who hasn’t even dreamed of it, the guy who’s a man and has never worn a dress and wouldn’t dream of doing so anyway. But deep down, you know there’s a girl that’s just screaming to get out.

Why Sissify him?

There are various motives:

Maybe he’s a husband who’s cheating on you. Maybe he’s a guy you want revenge on. You know, the workplace chauvinist or the pratt in the pub who thinks he’s God's gift to women or the guy who fixed your plumbing and charged £250.00 when he only replaced a washer.

Maybe, just maybe, he looks so damned pretty you can’t resist putting him in a dress. Hey, maybe you’re just bored and need something to do. You don’t need to have a noble cause, but it helps. This is a long process and best suited to a girl with patience...oodles of patience.

Buddies you may need:

A Beautician: If you don’t have anything else, make sure you have a friend who’s good at beauty therapy, someone who knows how to wax, style hair etc, someone who can give you advice on the best look for your sissy. It will help if she has a dominant personality.

An Alpha Male: Just in case you need someone to restrain your sissy. Must be tall, menacing and willing to help. You might also find him useful to reinforce sissy’s femininity if you planning to make her into a little whore.

A Close Relative: Such as an Aunt. Always useful especially if she’s always believed you married the wrong guy or has a personal history with the sissy (e.g., he charged her £250 for a washer). An added bonus is if there is a male relative who can act as the “guy”.

A Doctor/Nurse: Someone with medical experience who can guide you through the feminisation process if you want to use drugs to enhance her breasts.

Start Calling Him ‘Her’

Even if you’re not saying it aloud, you need to start thinking about your man as a girl. That means using the right pronouns, even if it’s only in your head to start with. She and her and the right pronouns and sooner she gets used to them, the better.

Preparing your space

You will need a special place for your sissy while you are training her. It helps for her to identify with her newfound position and will facilitate the learning process. Ideally, it should have enough space to hold her pretty new clothes and a bed, but not so big that it gives her delusions of grandeur. Certainly, her room should not be bigger than yours.

You should paint the walls a feminine colour like pink and make sure that everything matches. There should be plenty of frilly material, especially on the bed and lots of mirrors so that the sissy can view herself at all times (we suggest a large mirror along one wall). The bed should have a metal bedstead so that you can chain her to it for punishment purposes. It can be double if you expect her to entertain men but otherwise should be single. An optional extra would be to have chains fitted to the wall. There should be a dressing table and mirror where the sissy can apply her makeup in the morning.

If you are feminising your husband, you will need to remove all male clothes before commencing with full feminisation, that is, have him living 24/7 as a girl. If you are starting with him wearing female undergarments for work, then you should remove all male clothes except those which you decide he can wear. If you are feminising someone from work, or anyone else, then you will need to work through other means. It helps if you have the support of another female, preferably a wife or girlfriend.

If you have a lack of space you can always chain your sissy to the bottom of your own bed of an evening. Cupboards are also useful. Remember you are training them for obedience as well. Have a plan, think it out and implement it ruthlessly. Your sissy will thank you in the end. Things you will definitely need are:

• Restraints - stockings are useful as a cheap alternative or you can go for handcuffs and manacles

• Punishment - sissies, especially in the beginning, will need a fair degree of punishment to keep them on course. You can use whips, floggers or crops if you wish. For cheap alternatives have a look in your kitchen.

• A cock restraint/chastity device - you will need to make sure your sissy feels as feminine as possible. A cock restraint will keep her tucked in and ensure that she has to sit down to pee. It also will make the line of her pretty little panties look good and will enable her to wear thongs if you so wish. Chastity devices are a little bulkier but come with locks if you want to deny her sexual gratification.

Choosing the Look

The look of your sissy, how she will behave is entirely up to you. These are just some of the options:

• Sissy Maid: Perfect for those who like to clean. Useful for serving at dinner parties too. You can hire her out too!

• The Perfect Secretary: Teach her to type and work on her shorthand. She’ll thank you in the end.

• The Whore: Want your sissy to earn while you lounge around and watch daytime tv? Then this is the option for you.

• The Stepford Wife: Ideal if you want your sissy to be the perfect wife to some guy.

The look is all-important. If you are serious about this you should settle on what your sissy is going to be and stick to it. Changing your mind halfway through can cause problems and confusion. Your sissy will respond to the image of a strong woman. You must now dress appropriately yourself. Think power, think the new you!

Sissy will not take you seriously if you appear wearing jeans and an old sweatshirt. You must show her the way to femininity. You must be the image she aspires to, even if you are training her to be a little slut. She must think she is becoming you when in fact she is becoming what you intend her to be and nothing more.

Whatever look you choose for your sissy you will need to decide if you want her to be full-time. We suggest that if she is going to live her life as a woman then some form of medical intervention will be needed, either in the form of hormone treatment or SRS (sex reassignment surgery).

How to Trap Your Sissy

You’re ready to begin, you’ve chosen your target, and now you must have a plan. Here are some that have been used in the past:

Blackmail: Theresa was a 28-year-old secretary working for a banking firm. She was constantly being pestered by Daniel who seemed to look at her as just a sex object. Theresa got herself an IT degree and was promoted to help with the company’s computer system. There she discovered that Daniel had been downloading porn off the internet. This gave Theresa the perfect opportunity to blackmail Daniel because he couldn’t afford to lose his job. Daniel has now been transformed into Sabrina and is working as Theresa’s assistant. Theresa owns her own company.

Hypnosis: If your target has never before thought about being a girl you can implant feelings and urges through the use of hypnosis. Sarah did this to her husband. She would get him drunk and then put on a pair of headphones with hypnotic suggestions that George should start getting interested in the feel and look of women’s panties. When Sarah came home one day and found her husband asleep on the bed wearing her basque she photographed him and threatened to tell his friends down at the cricket club. Sarah then changed her useless husband into Mimi the French maid who she hires out to her friends to supplement her income. Needless to say, Mimi doesn’t play cricket.

Coercion: Mandy loved her husband but had always had feelings for other girls. Through love and subtle coercion, she transformed Steve into Tiffany, her lesbian lover. She began by saying what a turn-on it was for him to wear her underwear and secretly gave him hormones to increase the size of his bust. She was so attentive and loving that Steve couldn’t resist her. Tiffany’s a real beauty now. You must encourage your sissy to be feminine at all times. Ensure that she is surrounded by reminders of femininity. Get her to read magazines for women. Get her to talk about her feelings. She should see girls like those on this page as role models. She should want to be like them.

The Sissification Process

You’ve got your man in the right frame of mind, he’s beginning to get those feminine feelings, now here are some rules:

RULE 1:

Get your sissy to listen to hypnotic suggestions. You can find these on sites like PornHub or find a local hypnotherapist who can help. You can use this to change sissy’s behaviour while she sleeps. You will notice changes in her behaviour and find that she is more willing to be coerced into feminine attire. Depending on how strong the subjects will is, this can take some time. Be sure not to hurry this stage as it lays the foundation for things to come.

RULE 2:

Get your sissy into panties as soon as possible. First, ensure that she wears panties around the house. If she works then you must make sure that she wears them under her normal work clothes. Reinforce this behaviour by complimenting her. Remove her male underwear. Take photographs. It is important that you have something to blackmail her with should she begin to change her mind. Once she has been wearing panties for a while, and she is comfortable with this, introduce stockings and a suspender belt.

RULE 3:

Remove all her body hair. Tell sissy that she cannot get the full benefit of those lovely stockings with all that horrible man hair. Preferably wax as this lasts longer and gives a more sensual effect.

RULE 4:

If your intention is to change your man into a sissy whore, then now is the time to upgrade the hypnotherapy and get her interested in guys. Again you can download MP3’s from the warp my mind web site or get your friendly hypnotherapist to help out. The same goes if you want a maid or a stepford wife. It is important to instil a love of the particular behaviour you wish to be dominant in your sissy.

RULE 5:

You should now be dressing more dominantly yourself, being more assertive when talking to your sissy, and getting her use to being controlled.

RULE 6:

She is wearing female underwear to work and around the house (make sure around the house she wears just that and nothing else) and has had all her body hair removed. You now begin to administer hormone treatment and restrain her cock. The cock restraint must be worn 24/7 and not released unless under your supervision. Once the cock restraint is worn, you should now start referring to your sissy as “she”, “he”, “girl”. Sissy will also now need to sit down to pee.

RULE 6:

You will now pick a date for when sissy will live as a girl full-time and take on the duties you require her to fulfil. Don’t try to hurry this. If you pick the wrong time then things could go drastically wrong. If you are intending her to work as a secretary then you need to have a job for her to go to. If you are intending your sissy to act as a whore, then you should contact a male friend to aid you in the process, preferably someone who has experience of sissies. Your sissy should not know what is going to happen but should have reached a stage of compliance that suggests you will be successful. She will have grown her nails and will carry herself in a more feminine manner. Her beard growth will have been reduced by the hormone treatment and she will appear much more passive. Your sissy is now ready for total transformation into a girl.

The Sissification Process

Now is the time for total change. If you have taken your time with the process, your sissy should accept this step and begin her journey into complete submission to your will.

Sissy comes home at the weekend and heads straight up the stairs to take a shower. You will remove her remaining male clothes and replace them with a sexy robe and panties. You are going to be firm, you are going to show this girl her place. You have her new room waiting with it’s pretty pink walls, you have your crop to make her understand the meaning of disobedience and sissy has a wardrobe full of girl clothes. Now you can begin.

Each sissy is an individual. Use your imagination and superior intelligence to mould your sissy

Sissy is upstairs, putting on her robe and panties, unaware of what you have planned for her. You are about to give her the shock of her life. You should be wearing something appropriate, something that accentuates your curves, if your hair is long it should be pulled back tight, your makeup should be harsh and perfect. You should wear high heels or high heeled boots. You should look like a million dollars. Now is the time to call your sissy to heel.

The first thing to do is to restrain her. You will need to overpower her and take her to the new room, tying her to the bed by the use of stockings or handcuffs. You will then proceed to spank her pantied backside until she cries. If you have prepared well, then this should happen fairly quickly. You will call her “girl”, “slut” and “sissy”. You will insist that she calls you Mistress and punish her if she does not.

When you have cowed the little sissy and she is sobbing like a girl, then you can begin to build her up again. You will talk to her gently. You will tell her that she really should have been a girl and that she needs someone to take control of her. You will tell her that from now one she will act and behave like a girl and that she will no longer think of herself as a man.

If you are sure she is now under your control you may now release her and begin the process of dressing her fully, instructing her in matters of deportment and makeup. If you have a beautician to hand you will take sissy to a salon to have her makeup applied, hair styled etc. If sissy is not quite under control you must continue to punish her until she acquiesces. You must be prepared for this to take all weekend.

You will tell her that she is to strive for the perfect feminine behaviour at all times. You will lay out your plans for her, clearly and succinctly. If she is to be your sissy maid, you will list some of the chores she is to complete every day, if she is to be a secretary, you will tell her where she is going to be working from now one, if she is to be a whore, you will tell that she has to learn to pleasure men.

Case Study

Shannon is a Mistress with 20 years of experience who specialises in feminising guys. She currently has two sissies called Sarah and Dee.

“The internet has been a great help in finding what I want. Before that, I used to put ads in papers but that was a long, drawn-out process and not very reliable. Today, it’s almost instantaneous. You can log onto a chat room and find what you’re looking for, check it out straight away. That’s where I found Sarah and Dee. They live as full-time girls now but Sarah was an accountant and Dee had worked in various pubs. They were both single, which helped. They’re pretty little things now, and they adore their Mistress.”

“Punishment shouldn’t be random. There must be a reason for it or it loses impact. Sometimes, one of the girls will do something wrong on purpose. Sarah seems to like that side of things more than Dee who’s quite passive. Punishment takes many forms: a good flogging, giving the girl an unsavoury task to complete, tying her up, and making her sleep on a hard floor. If they’ve been very naughty then there’s no real substitute for a long period of restraint. Blindfold her, gag her and tie her arms and legs. She’ll soon learn respect.”

“It’s important to get them on their knees in front of you straight away. You have to take control. Some you can control totally from the start, others it’s a gradual process and that really gives you a sense of satisfaction. Before they know it they’re totally sissified and there’s no turning back.”

“Orgasm denial works particularly well with sissies in getting them to do what you want. Both mine have their cocks restrained and are unable to masturbate unless I give permission. It makes them very amenable. I’ve taught Dee to cum on command but it’s taking a little longer with Sarah.”

“I have a doctor friend who advises me on hormone treatment and Dee recently had breast implants and is very proud of her new 36C’s. Sarah is next, once she’s learned to cum on command. She wants large breasts but I don’t think they will suit her. We shall see.”

“You have to realise that this is a lifetime commitment. You can’t just play around with these girls so you have to make sure it’s what you want. My advice to first-timers is this: Patience, lots of patience. Don’t be in a hurry to get things done and don’t fret if there are setbacks.”

How to Give Her a Feminine Voice

The Laryngeal Cartilage: This is the “moveable” piece of cartilage that you can feel rising if you place your hand on the throat and sing a rising scale such as doh, re, mi, fa, sol, lah, ti, doh. If your baseline pitch is “doh”, your natural masculine voice, then you might aim for “fa” to be your feminine voice. Try to find a level that feels comfortable and not too squeaky.

Place the emphasis on pitch, not volume: Men place emphasis on their speech by varying loudness, but keep their pitch within a very narrow range. Women tend to keep their loudness constant but vary their pitch a great deal to express emphasis

Speak slowly, and enunciate clearly: Especially consonants at the beginning and end of words. Don’t mumble. A clear voice requires fairly big lip movements. On the whole, women enunciate much more clearly and precisely than men. Start and end sentences slowly and gently. Do not sound clipped. Male speech tends to be characterised by what speech therapists call “hard attack”, the first syllable is pronounced very hard and quickly. Women usually start a sentence more softly.

Practice with a microphone! You’ll be surprised how quickly you develop when you have that kind of feedback!

Use appropriate content: Men and woman tend to talk about the same things in different ways. What you say contains gender cues, just as much as how you say it. Women concentrate more on thoughts and feelings, while men concentrate on objects and actions. Men generally use more short cuts, colloquialisms and bad language. A simple illustration is to imagine someone asking a friend if they are going for a drink after work. A male might say something like “Coming down the pub?”, rather abrupt, using the minimum of words and concentrating on the desired action in a rather impersonal way. A woman might say “Do you feel like going for a drink tonight?”, concentrating on her friend's feelings and desires, personal, and not abbreviated.

How to Get That Femme Walk

You can spend your whole life in front of the mirror trying to get that perfect walk. It takes time to get used to heels, to develop that perfect sashay. Online videos teaching girls erotic dance is a good way to release that feminine movement. There are a few around and they work like a dream. This isn’t just about dance, it’s about movement and getting in touch with your feminine self.

The instructional part is very easy to follow, with basic moves that are possible even for those of us who are less than graceful. I was amazed at how fast I learned!! It was such fun!! Especially if you do it with a friend. I have noticed my abs and thighs are toning up too! That is a winning combination right there!!

That's it for now with the first part of How to Feminise Your Man. Part two will be coming soon!